Though you may have heard differently, an office party is still a party. A different decorum pertains compared to a fraternity party, but the objective remains the same. The objective is to have a good time. Relax and enjoy the atmosphere and the hors d'oeuvres. For those of you at larger companies, parties are an opportunity to get to know people outside of your department. These are people that may share common interests with you. Many softball teams, volunteer days and other office outings are direct results of conversations that occur at holiday parties.

By interacting with people in different areas of the company, you'll learn more about your firm in a few hours than you might in a whole year. You may find there are exciting opportunities that you may want to be involved in. By discovering new company capabilities, you'll be able to service your clients better, or at least more decisively. And as you move up, increasing your understanding of the big picture makes you more valuable to the company.

Get your name out there. When joint projects are discussed, higher-ups don't look through a roster of employees, they ask their team who they know in various departments. Networking is essential because it helps people remember you. Networking skills are vital to any successful career. Relish your chance to use and improve them. By attending a client's holiday party and talking to those outside of your company you allow yourself the chance to make yourself a contact for your department or company. Encourage people to call you if your help might make a difference, and demonstrate your willingness to lend a hand.

A quick word about drinking at office parties: While drinking might not be accepted at certain business events, it is all right at the holiday party. You should, however, use a great deal of discretion.

As a final thought, just remember to relax and have a good time. Once you get over your early evening jitters, you'll find yourself caught up in the good tidings and cheer, making new friends and contacts.